REMEMBRANCES OF MATTHEW BY DAD

Matthew’s Father, Nick Sanden, wrote this tribute to his son.  It was read at the Memorial Service on Saturday, April 19, 2008 –

There are so many memories of Matt that it is hard to pick one.  But I’ve selected one that is very meaningful to me.  Last October we had a memorial service for my dad.  I told the story of when Matt was born with a collapsed lung and had surgery when he was 4 hours old.  Even though I did not have time to really know this little baby Matthew, I tried to bargain with God that I would trade my life for Matthew’s if that is what was required to save Matthew’s new life.  With the birth of my firstborn son, I finally knew how much my father loved me because I knew how much I loved Matt.  While telling that story with my eyes full of tears, my eyes met Matthew’s tear-filled eyes and we knew the depth of each other’s love for the other.  I love Matt more than words can express. 

Last week, while Matt lay in a coma, I tried to bargain again with God.  I would gladly give my life to spare Matt’s.  But this time the Lord wanted Matt to be home with Him.  Matt will always be with me.  Matt will always be with me.  But he is now at rest and full of joy with his Lord.  Free and full of joy!  And I still love Matt more than these or any other words can express. 

I LOVE YOU MATTHEW!!!!

~ by Ken on April 23, 2008.